10 Tips to Balance Your Online and Offline Life

Photo by Dave Shea
Blogging is more than just writing. Add all the feed reading, topic researching, photo selecting, social networking and promoting, and comment moderating – blogging can unintentionally become a full-time job.
Here are a few tips I’ve applied in my own life to set healthy parameters around my time spent blogging and my time in “the real world”:
1. Keep a notebook handy. Post ideas come at the most random times, and if you don’t write them down, I promise you will forget them. By having your place to jot notes with you at all times, you can dump it out of your brain and move on to getting dinner ready.
2. Close out other programs on your computer. When you’re writing, compose the text in a simple program like TextEdit or Notepad, and close Firefox, your Twitter app, your email client, and anything else that serves as a distraction. You can reopen them when you’re doing the non-writing part of blogging.
3. Designate official blogging times. It helps to not try to blog while also trying to balance your budget, clean out your desk drawer, check e-mail, and use StumbleUpon. Use set times to blog, and blog only.
4. Make daily, specific goals. Instead of having one giant upcoming post loom over you, put it in your to-do list that you will research for such-and-such post idea today, then write it tomorrow, and then edit it the next day.
5. Write out a blogging calendar. My post topics are usually set on a calendar a month in advance, but I still stay flexible for those sudden post topics, such as when a commenter asks a great question, and you want to answer it right away.
6. Have a stockpile of timeless posts. Slowly try to accumulate simple posts about things that can be used at any time (in other words, not newsworthy topics). Then when you’re slammed with everyday life busyness, you can post and still keep your blog fresh while tending to your “real” life.
7. As you’re perusing Flickr to use for your post, “favorite” any photos you like that could potentially be used in a future post. Lately, all I’ve needed to do to find the perfect photo is go to my favorites collection.
8. Set realistic goals. If you’re a stay-at-home mom to three kids under 5, you’re not going to have scads of time to post an in-depth article every day. Currently, my goal at Simple Mom is to post three times a week.
9. Cut the online clutter. Unsubscribe to blogs that you don’t love. Select only a few social media networks to involve yourself in, and don’t worry about missing out in the rest.
10. Take a day off. When blogging starts to gets stressful or obsessive, step away from the laptop and get some fresh air. The blogosphere will manage just fine without you for 24 hours, and you’ll get some much-needed perspective.
What little things do you do that provide sanity, balance, and perspective amidst the blog-writing busyness?